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Cat Fight! What to Do

by | Nov 26, 2019 | Cat Behavior & Care | 7 comments

Do your cats fight? How do you stop a cat fight? And how do you know if the cat fighting turns serious—rather than just kitten play? Shadow-Pup thinks it’s great fun to chase and wrestle with Karma-Kat. We supervise, of course, and interrupt the play should one or the other object. Learn more about how pets play in this post.

If you’re looking for help with dog aggression, go here.

There are many kinds of cat aggression, and many are perfectly normal behaviors. Certainly, it’s not fair to you or the cats to allow cats to fight. Learn how to recognize the potential and reasons behind cat aggression and fighting cats, and what you can do.
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Karma-Kat and Seren-Kitty used to engage in what appeared to be a catfight on almost a daily basis. From Karma’s standpoint, he wanted to wrestle and play. Seren was not amused, and started yowling at him to “back off, buster!” at the first hint he strolled her direction. Here’s the deal, though…no fur ever flew, nobody was injured, and Seren always came back for more.

Thank cod! 🙂

In fact, I suspect Karma-Kat would enjoy having another cat friend. Maybe I can convince my husband of that fact sometime soon. (Paws crossed, y’all!)


Is The Cat Fight Real?

Cats usually work out their social standing with posturing and kitty bluffs, and neither kitty gets hurt. However, the lowest ranking cat (often an older, or ill kitty like Seren) can become a target picked on by the other felines.

Acting like a victim (slinking around, using submissive body language, hiding) is the equivalent of wearing a “kick me” sign and invites bullies to increase their bluster. Karma weighed more than twice as much as Seren’s 6-lb frame, and at 21 years old when she finally passed, my little Siamese wannabe became quite frail. So these days, Karma spends his play-and-chase time with Bravo, and no longer has to worry about injuring the old lady cat.


Cat Fight & Cat Aggression

Cat-on-cat fights can result from any other kind of aggression, such as redirected aggression, play aggression, and fear aggression. Most intercat aggression involves intact same-gender cats, and gets worse during mating season. That’s why spaying or neutering before a year old decreases or prevents about 90 percent of intercat aggression.



The top reason for a catfight is improper introductions. It’s a cat “rule” that a strange cat should be kicked out of the territory, so just dumping the newbie in with your crew asks for trouble. Once cats experience an altercation, that can predispose them to future fights because the experience was so unpleasant, scary, painful, etc. Think of it this way: the more cats “practice” being aggressive, the more likely they are to simply trigger into a fight at each others’ presence.

Sometimes cats get along fine until suddenly they don’t. That leaves us wondering, what happened? Often this is because cats reach social maturity at two to four years of age when many cats first challenge others for status.

Changes to the cat’s social group (new cat arrives or familiar cat dies/leaves) can prompt an increase in face-offs. Environmental changes such as moving or rearranging cat furniture or feeding/bathroom stations also can cause the fur to fly. Basically, any change in the routine may leave one or more cats so stressed they take it out on each other.

Not enough space predisposes cats to territorial disputes. Cats mark property with cheek rubs, patrolling, and urine marking. Some diabolical felines lure others into their territory and then “discipline” the other cat for trespassing. Feline territorial aggression is notoriously hard to correct, and marking behavior is a hallmark of potential aggression. Outdoor cats are more aggressive on their home turf and the cat closest to home usually wins the dispute.



It’s not all about hissing, screaming and wrestling. Cats use lots of subtle behaviors to control space. I call it “kitty poker” and in the best of all possible worlds, one cat backs down without a fight, and life goes on. Because it’s so subtle, though, you may not recognize power plays until one cat’s had enough and launches into a full-on catfight.

Cats use verbal and silent communication to elevate their status in the eyes of the other felines. They challenge each other with stares, forward-facing body position, hisses and growls, mounting behavior and nape bites, or blocking access to food, play, or attention. Some dominant cats use “power grooming” behavior—energetically licking the other cat—to make her move away.

KarmaSerenSandwichKarma used to simply sit down on top of Seren, sort of a Sumo-Kitty move that made her crazy and prompted her to give up her preferred bed. Yes, Karma’s a bit of a bully.

Never allow cats to “fight it out” as that rarely settles conflicts but makes matters worse. Manage with behavior modification, counter-conditioning, and sometimes drug therapy. The 10 tips below can help ease the strain and in some instances resolve intercat aggression.


  • Reduce the urge to fight by adding more territorial space so the cats don’t have to share climbing, hiding, and perching areas. Create a house of plenty with MORE toys, cat trees, litter boxes and feeding stations than the cats can use all at once.
  • Electronic cat doors that can only be opened by the collared victim cat will allow her to access the entire home yet retreat to a safe area the aggressor can’t follow. These pet doors open in response to the magnetic “key” inside the collar. Look for “keyed” pet doors at pet products stores or on the Internet.
  • Avoid rewarding poor behavior. For instance, giving food or attention to the aggressive cat may calm the angst but actually pays her to be a bully. Instead, catch Sheba before she gets hissy and redirect her behavior with an interactive toy, such as a flashlight beam, to lure her into play in another direction. That can also help her associate good things with the other cat—rather than with being nasty.
  • If the toy doesn’t work, interrupt with an aerosol hiss. Then once the cat walks away and is calm, reinforce the desirable response—acting calm—by offering a treat, toy or attention.
  • Go back to basics and treat the aggressive cats as though introducing them for the first time. It’s best to give the victim cat the choice location of the house, and sequester the bully cat in the isolation room using pet baby gates.
  • If you see no significant improvement within a week, talk with a veterinary behaviorist to see if drug therapy may be helpful. Drugs may help control the aggressive behavior in the bully cat, while decreasing the “kick me” defensive posturing and vocalizing of the threatened cat. Drugs aren’t a cure, but can be a tool that helps training work more effectively.
  • Once the signs of aggression, anxiety, and/or hyper-vigilance fade, begin to gradually expose the cats to each other in very controlled situations. Begin with the cats in carriers, or controlled with a harness and leash, at opposite ends of your largest room or longest hallway.
  • During each session feed cats tasty foods or engage in play. This helps both cats learn to associate each other with fun, positive rewards.
  • Interrupt unacceptable behavior (hisses, growls) with a squirt of compressed air or water gun, and toss small stinky treats to reinforce “good” (calm) behavior. Counter conditioning can take months and require much patience and time.
  • Once cats have learned to tolerate each other and are allowed to freely roam, create at least two feeding stations and two bathroom locations but the 1+1 rule is even better (one for each cat, plus one). Locate them so cats won’t be trapped or surprised when using either.

Thunder and fury with no blood spilled indicate they have excellent bite inhibition. But few fights resulting in lots of damage indicate that at least one of the cats either has very poor inhibitions or seriously wants to kill the other cat. Keep cat claws trimmed to reduce damage. Cats that hate each other and draw blood during fights have an extremely poor prognosis. When all tactics have failed to stop two indoor cats from fighting, then ultimately one cat may need to be placed in a new home or permanently segregated from the other in another part of the house. That’s NOT giving up—it’s making life better for the cats, and you.

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  1. Alan

    Thank you for your comments.
    We have situation where one of our 3 friendly cats escaped the garden and was out overnight. We found her again the next day thankfully, however, since then her sister attacks her on sight.
    No reaction to scent, as they room swap, but on sight – not so good.
    We tried drugs, no effect. We tried pheromones – no effect.
    Now we have to segregate completely.
    Definitely challenging, but we will not give up.

    • Amy Shojai

      It can take time for them to get reintroduced. Frustrating, but I applaud your patience!

  2. Martin

    Thank you for this excellent article, I have 4 cats and they regularly “fight” most of the time it’s ok (playful) but sometimes it can be very worrying

  3. Stacy Mizrahi

    Glad I found this, we are trying to curb some nastiness between out cat and my visting nephews cat.

  4. Susan C. Willett

    I have 4 cats and none of them really like each other. It’s more like tolerate. Over the years, I’ve watched their positions in the kitty hierarchy change, and I can definitely identify with the one cat who wears the “Kick Me” sign. I wish I could speak cat and tell Dawn if she just stopped slinking, the others wouldn’t find it so tempting to chase her. In the meantime, I’ve opened a few previously cat-free rooms to make more space, and have given Dawn a few more places to hang out in her favorite room (my son’s room. He’s her human.) I think it’s helped improve things a bit.
    –Purrs (and wags) from Life with Dogs and Cats

  5. Patricia

    About 3 months ago we noticed my precious 10 year old Macy squinting her right eye. We looked at it and seen nothing. About 3 more days went by and she was still squinting but I felt something under her eye. Definitely time for her to go to vet. Took her and diagnosis was eye infection and ruptured abscess. Oh no! Gave her antibiotics and antibiotic creme. 10 days went by and no better. Actually worse – all whiskers on that side gone and just a large raw meat looking place. Back to vet and more antibiotics and stronger creme. Vet said he was beginning to think this was a sarcoma and if not better in 2 weeks we should consider a biopsy. If sarcoma then nothing could be done but vet had not seen this before. We made the decision to keep doctoring and see if we could get it better. I did not believe it was a sarcoma but thought she might not make it. We had to force feed and water her for a few days. I am very happy to report that after weeks of persistent doctoring the raw meat place is gone, furr has grown back and she now has baby
    stubble whiskers coming back. Termite picks on Macy and they have these boxing matches. Macy does NOT like to be picked on. I think Termite accidentally hooked his claw under Macy’s eye and it set up an abscess. I just THANK GOD it was no sarcoma.

    • Amy Shojai

      Oh my goodness! I’m so glad that Macy is okay. That’s scary, indeed. Those claws can catch a pet (especially the eyes!) and do so much damage.



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