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Why Does My Dog Hug & Lean?

by | Mar 31, 2026 | Dog Training & Care | 8 comments

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There was a bit of controversy each year over a products brands that promoted “Hug Your Dog Day” and got a lot of flack over it (including from me!). But what if it’s the DOG that does the hugging? What does it mean when your pooch leans against you (some can knock you flat!). Today’s Ask Amy addresses the question.

Does your dog lean on you? How about hugging? Adolescent pooches may want to hug your leg (ahem!) but that’s a subject for another Ask Amy. More dog behavior answers are found in my ComPETability: Dogs book, too, but how do you handle the situation?

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8 Comments

  1. Anne w/an E

    My Terrier-mix licks my thighs and knees when she sits on my lap. I have pain in my thighs and knees and I always say that she is trying to kiss it better. What do you think?

    Reply
    • Amy Shojai

      Perhaps because of the pain, she senses those areas are warmer (or taste/smell differently) and that attracts her. Also, what you do in response (pay attention to her) could reward the behavior so she continues. I’m sorry you’re dealing with the pain, but lovely that you have such a caring pup to make you feel better!

      Reply
  2. Wayne Borean

    My girls love to lean on me, especially when I’m in bed. A couple of times they’ve nearly pushed me off the bed.

    Of course they are Beagles, and Beagles love sleeping in a pile…

    Wayne

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    • Amy Shojai

      🙂 Ah yes, the old hog-the-bed-spot trick.

      Reply
  3. Jana Rade

    As for human hugging dog, I think it depends on the dog and the type of hug. Jasmine did like her hugs.

    Reply
    • Amy Shojai

      Jana I totally agree with you. Dogs can be taught to accept certain kinds of hugs and view them as non-threatening, and even learn to enjoy them. Dogs love to please US, too, so if it pleases their person that can be very rewarding as well!

      Reply
  4. Anna Coffin

    My dog’s like to stick their nose in between peoples legs. I tell them that’s just their way of hugging!

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    • Amy Shojai

      ROTFL! I love this Anna and it’s sooooo true. But dang, that cold nose really does get folks’ attention.

      Reply

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