When we first got the word that Bravo had cancer, time stood still. We feared he’d end up being a three-legged dog, but we didn’t know what to expect. We didn’t know how fast dogs recover from amputation. With such a big 125-pound athlete, how would he cope? If we had to do it, we wanted that over with.
It took forever to get the bone biopsy scheduled, and then the pathology report. One of those “hurry up and wait” events that drive Type-A folks crazy, since we (well me, anyway) want to be in control.
Finally, you simply must recognize–you have no control. Simply trust in the experts, and trust your heart, to do right by your special pet. So then time sped up again. We heard from the Plano, Texas surgeon Dr. Brent Wilkens on Wednesday, June 10 with the pathology report. He recommended a consult with the Dallas oncologist, and Dr. Zachary Wright examined Bravo on Monday, June 15. After his recommendations, we scheduled Bravo’s amputation two days later on Wednesday, June 17, with our primary care veterinarian, Dr. Clay Morris, here in Sherman at Brakebill Veterinary Hospital. We wanted Bravo to be with people he knew and liked, and close by.
Cancer Surgery & Leg Amputation
We were an absolute wreck while Bravo stayed at the hospital. The staff love him (the feeling’s mutual) but of course, we worried. I had meetings both Wednesday and Thursday night. My husband and I wanted to be together with him once he came home, and so we picked him up Friday morning.
The first sight of Bravo both shocked me and made me laugh out loud. Sutures criss-cross his poor shoulder, with massive swelling and bruising, with some drainage. Despite that, Bravo walked out of the clinic on his own, grinning and wagging welcome, and easily hopped up into the back seat of the car. Once home, he spent a LOT of time emptying his bladder and getting “creative” and I suspect he hadn’t wanted to “go” while confined to his hospital run.
His post-op instructions included restricting his activity for the next couple of weeks. We continue his pain meds twice daily (Gabapentin and Rimadyl) for this first week, then once a day for the second week. He’ll need to build new muscles to compensate for the limb loss and balance issues. Until then, he tires quickly. The swelling nearly disappeared after three days.
Pet Empathy & Sympathy
I’m writing this post five days after his amputation, and he’s getting around quite well. This morning, he wanted to head down the pond (sorry, buddy!). His appetite comes and goes. And he’s interested but reluctant to interact with the puppy since Shadow has no understanding anything should be different! Here’s more about how Shadow the comfort puppy showed up. Karma-Kat, though, acts with sympathy and wants to groom and be near Bravo.
He has a long haul ahead of him. Bravo’s stitches come out after two weeks. The next day on June 30, we travel to Dallas for the first of five chemo treatments, one every three weeks. He’ll spend the morning at the oncologist, and come home in the afternoon. I know from writing about chemo and pets that dogs and cats rarely suffer side effects commonly experienced by people. The oncologist says he’ll likely be tired on chemo days, but that’s it.
Maybe you found this blog, or the videos, after your special dog’s cancer diagnosis. I hope Bravo’s story helps offer some insight. Cancer sucks. Decisions are hard. But your pets trust you to make the best choices for them. So listen to the experts but also to your heart.
I shot most of the video, below, only a few days after his homecoming. In the days and weeks ahead, I plan to share more about Bravo’s cancer journey. We’re keeping our paws crossed that his story has a happy ending — with lots of tail wags, treetz, and purrs along the way.
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Sandra Toney
on June 22, 2020 at 5:57 pm
Wow, Amy. All the decisions you’ve had to make must have been heartwrenching. Bravo is lucky to have pet parents who love him so very much. Sending love and prayers for his recovery. Thanks for keeping us informed. So many people care about Bravo (and your entire family). xoxo
Oh Amy and sweet Bravo!! What a BRAVE, BRAVE BOY!! God bless you all. I know how hard this has to be for all of you but I am so happy that Bravo is getting around well and is happy!!! Our beloved Dakota was diagnosed with cancer on June 8th and I am afraid we won’t have such a positive outcome because Dakota’s is on his heart. If we are lucky we may have two-four months, maybe less. I love when you wrote ” So listen to the experts but also to your heart.” because we are in close consult with our Vet. Dakota is eating fairly well, still stole my shoe yesterday, barked at the kids outside. He sleeps A LOT but he is also 13 and 3 months old. The Vet agrees that while he has some good quality of life we can still care for him and love him. I love on him every single day and tell him how much we love him. I am also cooking for him now as he can eat whatever he wants. Sending you Bravo and the family bunches of love and pray you have a much, much longer time with him! xoxoxo
On Monday September 11, 2023, a tiny speck of a kitten made her presence known with very loud MEWS and a personality way bigger than anyone expected. Hungry, full of fleas, and the expected roundworms (and probably tapes because…fleas), her eyes and ears looked too big for her delicate wedge-shaped face.
Now, I get alerts about “found” kittens all the time, and sadly, can’t take any of them. This baby proved different in so many ways–only some of which I can share. While at the grocery picking up kitten food, my husband called and I explained my next stop at church—Trinity Lutheran—where I hoped to find a forever-home for the baby with a family who tragically lost a beloved kitty. And I told him if that didn’t work out, we likely had a third furry wonder for our home.
My friends at church, not yet ready to welcome a new pet, meant that the kitten came home with me. It seems that the Higher Being with whom all things are possible, made sure she found her way to us. He knew we needed her as much as she needed us.
How to Read Dog Poop: Normal Dog Poop to Dog Poop Problems
Everyone who shares a home (and heart) with a dog at some point must deal with dog poop problems. Learning what’s normal, to yellow colored stool, or learning how serious blood in dog’s stool diarrhea may be helps get your dog help. While it may not be the most appealing topic, learning about your dog’s “creativity” offers important insight into his health.
Not only his food, but also your dog’s environment and emotional state, affects how his body works. Fear, anxiety, and stress can change a dog’s behavior, but also can disrupt digestion and cause enteritis. That in turn affects his poop.
Recognizing healthy elimination helps pet owners alert to abnormal eliminations. That way, when necessary, you can get your dog prompt medical help to diagnose and treat problems before they become worse.
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When your dog meets you at the door, head low with ears slicked back and eyes averted, is that a canine apology? Does your dog look guilty? The behaviors certainly mimic what humans associate with feeling shame or apology.
We know dogs can feel grief, but whether guilty behavior accurately reflects the dog’s true feelings is open to debate. Learn more about what your dog says with these behaviors!
September 19-25 is National Adopt A Less Adoptable Pet Week, founded by PetFinder.com. The organization encourages shelters and rescues to create special week-long events devoted to giving overlooked pets like those with disabilities a better chance at finding homes.
This struck a chord with me, especially after living with a tri-pawd dog when Bravo lost his leg. He didn’t act disabled, though. Have you ever adopted an other-abled pet or less adoptable pet?
What Is A Less Adoptable Pet
Why less adoptable? They’re the wrong breed or have special needs. Overlooked pets include deaf dogs or deaf cats, blind pets, or those missing a limb. Many folks prefer the ‘perfect’ cute puppy or kitten and don’t want a crippled pet, or just don’t like the color of the dog or cat. Of course, we know black dogs and cats, and those with only one eye, or three legs, still love us with all their furry hearts! Read on…
Know the Puppy Mill Score—Puppy Source Check List There are many places to find your dream puppy, and some are clearly better options than others. Avoid puppy mills at all cost. Of course, your heart can overrule logic if you are smitten by a needy baby, but...
Congratulations! Your hard work has paid off, and Kitty no longer fears the carrier and handles the car ride with almost no signs of fear, anxiety or stress. Kitty purrs and cheek-bonks the veterinary technicians, and barely notices the doctor’s exam through all the petting and tasty treats. But as soon as you get home, Kitty’s former feline friends snub him, or worse. Why do cats fight after vet visits? What’s up with all the cat bashing?
September is Animal Pain Awareness Month, so I wanted to share this vital information again. We know pain hurts, but pain in pets and treating pet pain when pets hurt confuses us. They can’t tell us they feel pain, or where it hurts. Not like humans.
Because I get to work at home, there are certain perks I enjoy–such as going barefoot to work. But one afternoon last fall I moved too fast and kicked the whey outta my big toe. This wasn’t just a stubbed toe, either—it lifted and peeled the nail back to the quick, bled everywhere and hurt like the devil! Yes, I said a few choice words as I hobbled down the stairs from my office (trying not to leave a bloody trail) to get bandage material. Ooooooh, that puppy throbbed and made me whimper and howl, let me tell you.
I understand how Magical-Dawg felt several years ago. After a run in the field playing fetch, he started shivering when he came inside. The ninety-degree weather argued that he was not chilled. I checked him head-to-tail, and found nothing wrong. But later in the week, he again started shivering, and even growled at me when I asked him to move—very uncharacteristic.
Finally, after several days and two vet visits, we figured out his problem. He’d torn a dewclaw back to the quick. it hadn’t come off, so the injury remained hidden. Seren-kitty had this happen once, too, when her claw caught on bedding as she leaped from the pillow. She hid. But Magic’s short temper, shivers, and hyper-alert behavior resulted from being in pain. Here’s what you need to know to help your pets.
Do you have a pet 1st aid medicine chest for your dogs and cats? The audiobook version of my first aid book for pets includes some DIY home remedies for old pets. While your veterinarian diagnoses and prescribes for your pet’s health issues, pet first aid and minor problems may benefit from human medicines.
Home remedies for pets save $$ and pet lives because Fido and Sheba rarely tears a claw or eats something iffy during regular clinic hours. It’s helpful to know how to use your pantry supplies and human medicine chest to help your cat or dog. Some people prescriptions can be dangerous (especially for cats!) so it’s a good idea to have a handy list.
It’s DOG WALKER APPRECIATION DAY! And maybe you have a regular dog walker (your kid? a company?) that manages when you can’t walk your dog, or go on vacation. Good pet vacation plans depend on the individual pet and your special circumstances. When my mother became ill and then passed away, we need to find a pet boarding place for Shadow-Pup and Karma-Kat to stay. Does your dog love riding in the car, meeting new people at the boarding kennel, hide from pet sitters, or become hyper around strangers? Maybe you’d like to learn about traveling with your pet.
Perhaps Chance the cat enjoys riding in the car but your brother’s dog hates kitties, or Grandma is allergic. Are pets more comfortable at a kennel away from your nephew’s hair-pulling fingers? Or does your pet go on a hunger strike if boarded?
I can’t remember the last time that my husband and I had a vacation together, but I do remember how boarding my dog led to a broken arm (read on for that story!). Since that time, we make an effort to not be gone at the same time. There are times, though, when we must leave them behind, maybe not for vacation but other reasons. Here are some tips for pet vacation issues.
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Wow, Amy. All the decisions you’ve had to make must have been heartwrenching. Bravo is lucky to have pet parents who love him so very much. Sending love and prayers for his recovery. Thanks for keeping us informed. So many people care about Bravo (and your entire family). xoxo
Thanks so much Sandra.
Oh Amy and sweet Bravo!! What a BRAVE, BRAVE BOY!! God bless you all. I know how hard this has to be for all of you but I am so happy that Bravo is getting around well and is happy!!! Our beloved Dakota was diagnosed with cancer on June 8th and I am afraid we won’t have such a positive outcome because Dakota’s is on his heart. If we are lucky we may have two-four months, maybe less. I love when you wrote ” So listen to the experts but also to your heart.” because we are in close consult with our Vet. Dakota is eating fairly well, still stole my shoe yesterday, barked at the kids outside. He sleeps A LOT but he is also 13 and 3 months old. The Vet agrees that while he has some good quality of life we can still care for him and love him. I love on him every single day and tell him how much we love him. I am also cooking for him now as he can eat whatever he wants. Sending you Bravo and the family bunches of love and pray you have a much, much longer time with him! xoxoxo
Oh no Caren! I hate this news. You’re doing everything right, will pray for comfort and peace and tail wags and happy Sheltie barks. 😣