I’m just home from a WONDERFUL and long-overdue visit with my parents–and got to see my brother and sis-in-law, too. I had a lovely visit and ate and talked way too much AND….(drum roll please)….I didn’t do ANY work. Well, I read and answered a couple emails but that’s it. So today’s blog is brief but also has some important info especially around the holidays. If this is a re-run of some info previously shared, tough cupcakes…it bears repeating. I hope you’ll share with others contemplating a “furry” Christmas morning.
Everyone who adores puppies wants to share the furry love affair and give puppy gifts, but not everyone is ready to receive puppies as gifts. Maybe the recipient will appreciate your thoughtfulness. But don’t gamble with a puppy’s life. Sure, Grandma is lonely and needs a wagging lap-warmer to keep her company. But she may have other plans, such as traveling to visit all the grandkids. A puppy that chews up Aunt Ethel’s hat collection will cost you favorite nephew status. A busy new parent may want a pup for their kids, but have other demands that take priority.
I used to say NEVER EVER give a puppy (or kitty) as a gift, especially around the holidays but new stats from a study by the ASPCA showed that holiday pets actually do stay in homes pretty well. So I’ve amended my recommendations. You can give pets as gifts–you just need to know how to do it. Here are 4 steps to giving a puppy — the right way.
You can also refer to these questions to ask before someone adopts a pet–and put yourself in the recipient’s “paws.” That helps you (and them) choose the best puppy match. Here are 7 questions to ask before you get that puppy.
Finally, how do you know what’s a good puppy (or kitten) source? There are many folks this time of year advertising cute fuzzy pets available for Christmas morning. They’re available from shelters, from breeders, from newspaper ads, and even in the WalMart parking lot (ew!). Some may become wonderful pets but having a good start in life can make a big difference in how they’ll develop and become family members. Besides, you don’t want to support “bad” establishments even if you feel like rescuing that needy waif. So here are 10 questions to ask that puppy source.
Did you ever give–or receive–a pet as a gift? Was it a good experience–what challenges did you face? Where did you find the dog of your dreams? What are some other tips to think about when “gifting” someone with a new pet? Please share!
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