Is a new cat in your future? Each spring and fall, kitten season may bless you with a new feline friend. But can you predict talkative cats? You wonder, why does my cat meow so much? Heck, cat meowing may be one way cats show love. My Siamese wannabe Seren lived to be 21 years old, and she talked constantly. We relished her kitty conversations, but some cats over-indulge, and pet parents want to stop cat meowing.
Karma-Kat rarely talks unless we address him and doesn’t randomly meow. Mostly, Karma comments center around FOOD and TREATS. He also meows at Shadow–thank goodness the noise doesn’t scare him! Yes, he understands the words, and his “meow” is typically a “yes, please” answer to our questions. Oh, and Karma “announces” when he uses the (ahem) facilities. Trinity-Kitty calls to us when she wants us to come find her and play. Oh, and she also meows LOUDLY anytime food enters the picture. What about your cats?
Key Takeaways
- Many factors contribute to excessive cat vocalization, including breed and communication styles.
- To effectively stop cat meowing, ignore the behavior completely; avoid feeding or responding to demands.
- Certain breeds, like Siamese, are more vocal, while others may be quieter lap sitters.
- Kittens start meowing to communicate needs; they often learn to use meows primarily with humans.
- Consult a veterinarian if excessive meowing persists, as it may indicate health issues.
How to Stop Cat Meowing
In the past I’ve had discussions with some of my Facebook friends and colleagues who have new kitties with — let us say — loudmouth issues, LOL! How to stop cat meowing can be a huge challenge, especially with kittens and demanding older cats.
I figured this was the purr-fect time to share some of the information from a couple of my books, COMPLETE KITTEN CARE has some tips on choosing your new kitten based on breed (of course, strays may choose you!). When you want to stop cat meowing that pesters you, one of the best ways is choose a cat that meows less frequently.
A few cat breeds are famous for their loud voices. Siamese-type cats are known for their distinctive meows and love to hold long—and loud—conversations with their humans. If you adopt one of these kittens, they’ll always get in the last word!
Cat Breed Foibles
- Highly active, in-your-face: Abyssinian, Balinese, Bombay, Burmese, Colorpoint Shorthair, Cornish Rex, Devon Rex, Egyptian Mau, Javanese, Oriental Longhair, Oriental Shorthair, Russian Blue, Siamese, Somali, Tonkinese
- Less active “lap sitter”: American Wirehair, Birman, British Shorthair, Exotic Shorthair, Himalayan, Persian, Ragdoll, Snowshoe
- Vocal, opinionated: Balinese, Color-point Shorthair, Japanese Bobtail, Javanese, Oriental Longhair, Oriental Shorthair, Siamese, Tonkinese
- Quiet, prefers watching: American Wirehair, Birman, British Shorthair, Chartreux, Egyptian Mau, Exotic Shorthair, Havana Brown, Korat, Scottish Fold, Snowshoe
- High-fashion models, requires lots of grooming: Exotic, Himalayan, Maine Coon, Norwegian Forest Cat, Persian, Ragdoll, Scottish Fold (longhair)
KITTEN MEOWING & CAT COMMUNICATION
Cat communication begins early in life. Kittens less than three weeks old vocalize a defensive spit, contented purr, and distress call (similar to adult meow) if the baby becomes isolated, cold, or trapped. Interestingly, the call for “cold” sounds much higher pitched and disappears from the repertoire once the kitten can self-regulate body temperature at about four weeks of age.
Cat Meowing Explained
Cats rarely meow at each other. They learn to direct meows at humans because we reward them with attention. Each cat learns by association that meowing prompts feeding, access to locations (let me OUTSIDE!), and other resources provided by humans. Learn how to foil door-dashing felines in this post. Some cats learn to produce unique meows for each circumstance.
Humans often overlook body language that makes up a great deal of cat communication, but feline yowls, growls, hisses and purrs get our undivided attention—especially at 5:00 a.m.
DEALING WITH CATERWAULING (from ComPETability: CATS)
In multi-pet homes, troublemakers (other pets pestering) may prompt problem meowing. Cats introduced to other cats or dogs for the first time often meow more as a result. Felines use a wide range of vocalizations to communicate with other cats but seem to reserve “meows” primarily for talking to their people. Meows are demands: let me OUT, let me IN, pet me, play with me, FEED me! As the cats become more passionate and insistent, meows grow more strident and lower-pitched.
How to Stop Cat Meowing
Giving in to cat meowing demands tells Sheba that pestering works to get her way, and any response, such as putting the pillow over your head, yelling at her, or pushing her off the bed still gives her the attention she craves. The only way to extinguish this behavior is to totally ignore the cat.
That means you DON’T get up to feed her; you DON’T indulge in toe-tag games; you DON’T yell at her, spray her with water, or give any attention at all. That’s hard to do when she’s paw-patting your nose or shaking the windows with yowls. It can take weeks to months to get rid of this behavior once established, but with patience, it can be done.
CLICK HERE for the Handout 6 Ways to Silence Meows
Before You STOP CAT MEOWING: VET ALERT!
For some reason, cats tend to become more vocal when suffering from hypertension (high blood pressure), which can be a result of kidney or heart disease. When Sheba can’t hear her own voice any longer, she tends to meow louder and longer. Excessive meowing also may be a sign of deafness in aging cats or even kitty Alzheimer’s (feline cognitive disorder). Check with your veterinarian about excessive meowing in any cat and learn more about aging cat health in COMPLETE CARE FOR YOUR AGING CAT (now updated for 2024!).
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Hi, I have a rescue Cat, a Solid black named Kaitlin, She nearly died when she was a kitten, and since I had her, she has been meowing all the time. Ignoring does not work, She is well fed, always has water, has plenty of toys, lots of love and affection, and clean litter, no matter what I do, she constantly Meows. She is my ESA kitty but with the loud constant meowing, it’s becoming more of a stress issue for me than an emotional support. What do I do?
Ignore her. Get earplugs.😀 It gets lots worse before it goes away so ignoring religiously until then is the only thing that works. Remember that any attention (feeding, petting, yelling or just talking) rewards the behavior. You might try playing some harp music that can calm her stress (and yours, too).
I grew up with Siameezers so I’m used to talkative cats. But the important thing is to know what is normal for your cat. If talking isn’t normal then a visit to the veterinarian is the first step. Then consider any behavioral or environmental disturbances.
Don’t forget the ocicat. They’re social and very chatty and can be very very loud.
Absolutely! And gorgeous besides.
Hi! We have a cornish rex of 6 years old that really need to express himself. We were able to manage his night meowing by ignoring him. It took 3 weeks, but now it’s almost regulated 😉 The new thing is that we recently move. We are living at the third floor and we had to “cat proof” the balcony that he can enjoy the birds, the squirrels and the sun. But, unfortunately, our cat is the reincarnation of Houdini. He manage to escape a bunch of time until everything was really safe. But now that he tasted the freedom, he’s ALWAYS meowing outside at the stairs. He’s obsessed by that as soon that he is outside. We tried at the beginning to ignore him with no effect, but now it’s spring time and the all the neighborhood is outside and ear him. I tried to “hisssh” him or spray him every time that he is meowing, but he doesn’t seem to associate the punishment with the meowing. He seems just confuse and come back inside. I’m not even sure if he’s meowing for us to do something, he’s just meowing with intensity with big eyes like an addict who wants his dose of freedom.
Honey is the name of my white kitten from a British 1980s television series. A white cat gets abused by several people in The Adventures of White Beauty, but it ends happily. A man recognizes the sound of white Beauty’s neighing as he remembers the voice of his owner.
I’m confused…a white kitten that neighs like a horse? You might be conflating this with Black Beauty (a horse story) *s*. Oh, and I removed the link as it had nothing to do with your comment or the topic at hand. Thanks for understanding.
I never shut up a cat’s mouth, because cat noises don’t bother me. and the sound was very natural to me
Now that’s a great c’attitude to have!
I agree with every factor that you have pointed out. Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts on this.
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Congratulations on your novel–so does it have a lot to do with cat meowing (since you posted the comment on this thread)? Also, I would urge you to consider looking into membership in the Cat Writers’ Association, as membership should help you connect with more writers of cat-centric material. *s*
I’ve lived with many cats during my lifetime, but the latest one I adopted is possessed. I have to keep the house windows closed as people walking down street have asked if he’s okay. He makes me sweat when he meows! Seriously it’s so loud. Ignoring him… i.e. locking him downstairs from dawn until 10am (ignoring) does NOT work. I bought pheromones but it doesn’t work. Do I have to live another 18 years with this?! I have four other cats and their meows are so quiet or non existent. He’s going to give me a heart attack I’m so stressed. He’s been castrated. He’s still yowling now at 1am. I want to get him devocalized but apparently that’s cruel. I want to give him away but he is part of our family and who wants him?! Grrrr! 18 more years?! Do I need to build a soundproof jail for him in the garden?
Ignoring means every-single-time. *s* And as the blog says, it gets worse before it gets better in an extinction burst. But with your description I’d get him vet checked to be sure he’s not deaf, or has some other health/physical issue prompting the behavior.
Hi.
Probably hoping for too much here but need help with a blind from birth (no eyeballs) moggy. He looks exactly like this but with darker coloured fur (apart from the eyes of course) https://cdn.omlet.co.uk/images/originals/Cat-Cat_Guide-A_moggy_tabby_cat_lying_down_on_the_carpet_with_its_paws_stretched_out.jpg
He was meowing under a car and I rescued him from starvation when he was about 2 months old and he sticks to me like superglue. Didn’t neuter him and got lucky because he alomst never pees at the windows or front door (which are the borders to his house-defined territory) and obviously he has to rely on his ears for almost everything. He’s now a bit older than 2.
When I haven’t been at home for a few hours the other 2 humans never hear him cos 99% of the attention he gets is from me. He runs to the door meowing when he hears me coming up the stairs and is fairly talkative when I’m at home. I’m a night owl and go to bed when the sun comes up and so have to keep him quiet while the other 2 humans are asleep. If he meows once or twice at night it’s usually not a problem cos it’s not that loud but if I come back late (if he hasn’t had contact with me for maybe 7 or 8 hours and the other 2 humans are sleeping and it’s dead quiet) he starts howling cos I’m not there and wakes everyone up – process repeats every 15-30min. Can’t isolate him in another room cos the house is too small. Have put him in a cat enclosure in the storage room under the apartment a couple of times but he hates that and scares the crap out of him and we feel really bad about doing that to him. Have tried a sedative reommended for cats but his stomach can’t handle it and he vomits it back up or if it stays down it as no effect. Have tried catnip but it doesn’t make him sleepy. The other 2 humans can’t play with him before they go to bed to make him tired so that’s not an option. I’m thinking the last resort is to de-meow him unless anyone has any bright ideas. 🙁
Play harp music for him. It’s a natural sedative and entrains the brain waves and heart rhythms. Since he’s very keyed into sound, that should work very well for him (it does for sighted cats, too). One that I like is from Susan Raimond, Pet Pause. https://petpause2000.com/cds-mp3s Good luck!
Hi. Thanks very much for the reply. I was wondering if there are any scientific studies proving the effectiveness of this on cats. There aren’t any mentioned/linked to on that site and I don’t want to spend $45 and international postage on something that’s not proven scientifically.
Also, if this does work, would you recommend playing the music continuously while I’m not at home or just for a few mins or an hour before I go out, or in some other fashion?
Thanks.
You can GOOGLE the terms “cats and music” for a host of studies, some from Applied Animal Behavior and others more anecdotal. There are never guarantees about what works with a given cat. I’m most familiar with Raimond’s work but you can certainly also try free YouTube music of harp or other music to try, if you don’t wish to purchase something.
Thanks for the reply. I will try to do some research if I get the time.
On a positive note, I thought about something that might work and it seems to be doing the trick. We don’t have regular feeding times so he eats whenever he feels hungry, however what I do when I have to go out at night and come back early hours of the morning is I refrain from giving him anything to eat for about 6 hours – no food whatsoever (only water) from dinner time at 6PM until just before I go out (at around midnight). Since he (and most cats?) seems to sleep after eating a large amount of food, he usually just goes to bed and lets the food digest and fortunately he remains quiet for hours at a time (presumably most of the time is spent asleep). Working very well so far so crossing my fingers. 😉 Just as a footnote, he’s not that active (because of his blindness) and so he doesn’t get tired from playing like most cats do so this is the only way I can make him sleepy.
Hopefully this will be helpful for others who are trying to keep their indoor cats quiet at night.
I don’t know if Chris is still having trouble with this blind cat, but I thought I’d chime in. When I had problems with active cats at night I’d play with them for a while then feed them before bedtime and that got them on my schedule.
And just because a cat is blind don’t think they can’t play. I met some people at a cat show with a blind cat. They said they used crinkly toys that made noises so the cat could follow them. They showed me how playful he was right there at the show.
Excellent points, thanks Andrea!
My cat is about a year an 3 months she gets meowy sometimes..is she hurting?
Usually vocalizing kitties want attention. If you’re concerned as it’s unusual, a veterinarian checkup is a good idea.
I have a male ragdoll he always meows at night or even during the day but he’s worse at night while we try watching tv or when where going to bed he just walks arould the house meowing driving us crazy and he meows at the front door a lot because he wonts to get out but our cat is a inside cat has been since he was a kitten but because we live on a highway I won’t let him outside it’s too dangerous with cars going up and down he could get ran over so he’s a inside cat . As much as I love him his meowing needs to stop it really dose can anyone help me with this please as I need it to stop .
Unfortunately, as I say in the tips guide, it will get worse before it gets better. But you must follow the tips provided. There is no magic wand! When you pay attention to him (with good OR bad attention) that rewards him and encourages the meowing to continue.
Hi Amy! I was happy to find your article because our approach to curb our cat’s (domestic short hair tabby) meowing is not working. Background: We got our cat from a shelter about two months ago and she is an adorable 1 year old who is super sweet and otherwise extremely well behaved(no scratching, biting, clawing, and loves to spend time with us). Our only issue is the CONSTANT meowing. We tried the ignore method for over a month but nothing has changed. My partner has resorted to yelling at her and eventually spraying her in the face but I don’t think she has the sense to associate it with the fact that she is meowing causing her to get mad at us and hide under the couch. The odd thing is she does not do it when my boyfriend travels for business and she stays with me alone in my apartment. However, the minute he comes home it increases by about half and once we get back to his apartment it’s full blown. I know he is not giving in to her so I don’t know what the difference could be. Any advice? We figure it must have been a behavior learned in her previous life. Does she think she will be left again? Is she uncomfortable around men? The meowing doesn’t sound like she’s scared or upset it’s a bit shrill and always the same pitch. We are staying consistent but feel horrible about having to constantly ignore her and not being able to enjoy her company as much as we’d like. I’m sure it can’t be fun for her to be ignored. She can be a bit of a dumb dumb and we are concerned she isn’t making the connection. If she stops meowing and we go over to reward to her she just starts right back up again the moment we get near her and we have to walk away. So frustrating. Thanks!
Oh my, how frustrating for you. If it primarily happens when your boyfriend is there, and not when you’re alone, there is something that rewards the behavior. Meows tend to be bids for attention so — when you’re alone with her she has you to herself. When he’s there, you pay more attention to him, perhaps, and she mews to get in on the attention? Also, timing is key–if you go to her when she’s silent but it happens too quickly after silence begins, she may think, “the longer I meow, the greater the chance I’ll get attention!” Maybe think about an alternative behavior to cue (chasing a feather toy?) when she’s quiet, that keeps her busy without resorting to meows. Good luck!
What made the difference for us was your advice about how even bad attention is still rewarding the behavior. As mentioned, after a month of the ignore method not working we had admittedly resorted to yelling and a spray bottle but it did absolutely nothing because as you said, it was still providing the attention. After paying more attention to my boyfriends interactions with her, he finally came to the realization that he is giving into the meowing way too soon and has now stopped that behavior. We were told by the vet it would take a couple weeks to improve but it took our cat about two months to show any change after sticking to the ignore only method. As per your advice, we also wait longer when she stops meowing before giving her attention she has to be sitting relaxing before we engage. It has now reduced to about half and strangely seemed to have happened overnight. We’re really relieved because we’re trying to have kids and had serious concerns about whether we could even keep her (used to meow in our face if we were doing anything but sitting still on the couch). I also STRONGLY recommend people get an automatic feeder so your cat dissociates you from food. I fed her via the bowl for a week when we were traveling and she started associating me with food again and meowed in my face starting hours before meal time for the entire week. We also got her a tall elaborate cat tree (we live in a small city apartment) so she leaves us alone a lot more now probably feels like she has her own space. Thanks again!
Wow, thanks so much for the update, I’m glad you’re getting the ME-WOWS under control. *s*
I just got a 9 week old kitten and he screams at everything. I think he just wants attention 24/7 as he always wants to be on me. He’s the cutest thing and I love him but how do I help him get a little more independent and quiet?
Hi Julie, sorry for the delay. Much of the squalling should calm with maturity. It’s also helpful for YOU to learn when he’s truly in distress, and when it’s simply crying for attention. You’ll want to address the “help me!” cries, but responding too much to the “pet me/play with me” cries can train him to continue the behavior. It’s a balancing act. Thanks for visiting and commenting on the blog and congrats on your new kitty!
Thanks for this wonderful piece. I need to share this with my neighbour. I will ask my dad to buy this book as a secret santa for them and insert the link on a sticknote. Sorry they have 2 cats which sing/meowing on our wall almost every night around 3am. 🙁
Hi I have a domestic Short hair tabby cat and I was just wondering how I can keep him from meowing at 8 o’clock in the morning?
As the blog post says, there are more tips available by clicking this link to help stop the meows.
Thanks for this wonderful piece. I will forward this article to my friend, they have been saying their cat has some issues and keeps meeowing in the night.
Hi Kiki, Thanks for visiting and commenting. I hope the tips help your friend.
My deaf cat hates me, he has never sat on my lap,won’t let me hold him and has attacked me several times. He will allow my grandson to carry him under his arms with his legs and belly dragging along the ground. He is extremely vocal. I feel used
LOL Lynda! Well thank goodness he tolerates your grandson.
Hi Amy! I found one interesting picture of dog and cat and posted it in my blog, then found out it’s your s. I have given credit to you. Is it okay. You wont mind? or shall I remove it.
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Hi Indira, thanks for asking — I paid for and licensed that image through DepositPhotos.com so you would need to purchase the rights to use it from them. Here’s the link to the image: https://depositphotos.com/13820656/stock-photo-dog-and-cat-fight.html
We have 2 cats and boy when they are meowing even the neighbours can here!
Awesome article Amy!
Having 3 cats at home, we have our fair share of meows in the house LOL
Purrs
Hi Amy!
Almost 6 months ago I brought a gorgeous Exotic Shorthair (tortoiseshell coloured) female , Cleo, to my home. She’s 1 year old now. I live with my family (we are 4 humans) in a 2500 sq ft duplex (7th floor) and we have no other pets. I did quite a lot of research about this breed even before having her with me, and I learned these cats are really quiet…
… but she is not. She meows an *awful lot*. From my observations, she meows like 80% of the time because she wants playing, maybe less than 10% because she’s getting too much cuddling from me and the rest of the time usually because she wants some door opened for her. My main problem is that most of the time she has not enough with a toy (I have balls, mice-shaped toys and some improvised stuff like ropes with something attached to them; anyway I have to point that curiously the toys she prefers the most are my hair bands). She has to have *me playing with her* where she wants (usually in the corridor near the stairs) or she would turn *really really noisy*. And she can be like this for hours everyday. I tried to ignore her, but I can prevent the rest of the family from eventualy paying attention, so training gets really hard (while not impossible).
Is there anything more I can do? Maybe some kind of really-enjoyable and interactive toy (that doesn’t require my intervention) capable to get all of her attention? Any other means to have her entertained consistently without me?
Thanks in advance! Kisses!
Hi Cassie, Congrats on your new lovely kitty, Cleo! Yep, they can be pretty demanding. Creating a schedule (and not deviating from it…) as well as training the rest of your FAMILY (LOL!) is the key. There are some fun interactive toys, self-engaging that the cats can play with by themselves, too. PetSafe has some nice ones like Frolicats brands. Good luck!
Thank you so much Amy!
I’m working that out (family education lol) right now. Thanks for the link, gonna check it out!
My sweet, loving, beautiful, snow-white weegie (Norwegian Forest Cat) has been very vocal ever since I brought him home at six weeks old (about 7 years ago). This is a very good article (thank you), but it won’t help my current situation. Nicolai often walks around talking and yowling to himself and/or nobody. His hearing is good, and I don’t think he’s senile. Except for asthma, he’s healthy. But as soon as he wakes up from a nap, he starts talking and whining LOUDLY, and it will go on for a few minutes. He also does it at night. I don’t respond to him, and he gets no attention, either positive or negative. I simply dismiss it as a minor irritant sometimes.
I recently got married. Hubby likes and enjoys my three kitties, but Nicolai is keeping him awake at night. If I can’t find a way to keep Nicolai quiet at night, I may have to give him away, and it will break my heart. Tonight I will try Benadryl, an antihistamine that cats can have. I hope it helps, but I can’t keep giving Nicolai drugs every night, either. Sigh …
I’m still seeking a remedy that doesn’t involve giving up my baby (or a muzzle … lol). Suggestions are welcome and appreciated!
Hi Tricia,
My best advice, without doing a full workup and consult, is to confine Nicolai at night in a room of his own, across the house from your bedroom so you don’t hear him.
Good luck!
I needed this article big time! My cat doesn’t ever want to shut up, especially in the middle of the night!
It can be VERY obnoxious! Hope the tips help, and thanks for visiting the blog.
We had to train one cat to stop meowing at our door. We still won’t open the door if he’s out there making any sounds. Consistency is the key.
–Purrs (and wags) from Life with Dogs and Cats
Some humans just don’t appreciate feline musicality!
Any sound can drive you insane when it is done repetitively all day, every day, especially high pitched sounds such as a meow.
Very true, Karen!
I’m a yeower. I start singing right after TW goes to bed at around 1 a.m. She used to get up to see if I was in distress but lately she’s been annoying me. She says I sound like a cat in heat up on a fence outside caterwauling. I’ve been spayed but I just want attention.